Goals of India Meeting

    Article from Christian Science Monitor about India Conference

    3/7/2008 edition

    CAN WOMEN FIND UNIQUE WAYS OUT OF WAR?

    Women leaders from 45 nations meet in India this week to
    discuss their role in conflict resolution.

    By Mark Sappenfield | Staff writer of The Christian Science
    Monitor


    NEW DELHI - Sakena Yacoobi well knows the hardships of Afghan
    women, caught between a war and the hopelessness of poverty
    and illiteracy.

    Yet on International Women's Day Saturday, the Afghan educator
    will not ask the world to help Afghan women. Instead, she will ask
    Afghan women to help the world.

    In a time of growing conflict around the world, she believes the
    wisdom and compassion of women can offer a way out. "Women
    bring tolerance and patience," she says. "Women can bring
    solutions – we cannot accomplish that with weapons."

    She is one of several hundred prominent female leaders from 45
    countries who have come to India this week to seek ways to raise
    women's voices worldwide, hoping that their ideas – so often
    ignored – begin to move the world away from war.

    It is a unique approach to International Women's Day – and
    intentionally so, says Dena Merriam, who has organized "Making
    Way for the Feminine," a five-day conference that began Thursday
    in Jaipur.

    "This is not about empowering women," says Ms. Merriam, who
    also co-chaired the United Nations' Millennium World Peace
    Summit in 2000. "It is about how women can transform society to
    help us find new ways of addressing conflict."

    There are men here, too. The goal, participants say, is not to
    antagonize men. Yet each believes that women bring to the issue
    of conflict resolution a different perspective. Many liken it to that
    of a mother, stern but caring, and more open to finding alternatives
    to violence.

    That perspective is sorely needed, they say, as the path of power
    and aggression has led only to more fighting and division. "The
    feminine gifts of compassion, empathy, and caring prepare women
    for the urgent role as leaders and reconcilers," said the Rev. Joan
    Brown Campbell, chairwoman of the Global Peace Initiative for Women,
    at the opening press conference.

    "This is about whether women, with men as their partners, can chart a new course,"
    continues Ms. Campbell, who has worked with leaders such as Nelson Mandela, Martin
    Luther King Jr., and Bill Clinton.

    The outlines of that new course can be seen in the lives of those attending, both men and
    women.

    It is evident in the compassion of Ali Abu Awwad, a Palestinian who has been
    imprisoned for his family's political activities and whose brother was killed in the second
    intifada, yet started a foundation for Israelis and Palestinians who have lost relatives in
    the conflict.
    "The idea is to show people that if you are in the peaceful way, you are not
    alone," he says. "You do not need to be afraid."

    It is evident in the activities of Ms. Yacoobi, who operated secret schools for girls in
    Afghanistan during Taliban rule, and has since expanded her activities to eight provinces.
    While other schools have been burned or destroyed, hers have not, she says, because
    she is a part of the community and knows their needs.

    "When the people trust you, they will protect you," she says.

    In this is one of the lessons she is bringing to Jaipur. "You have to listen to the
    communities – to listen to their needs. You can't just depend on weapons," she says,
    suggesting that connection to the community tends to be a stronger trait among women
    than men. "We need people to listen to us, not to order us."

    These are the voices that this conference hopes to amplify and inspire. Organizer
    Merriam acknowledges that the conference has an enormous task. The intent is to begin
    to change how the world thinks about power – spreading the notion that
    nonviolent solutions are practical and not the fruit of weakness.

    Her tools, she says, are the participants themselves. With few women voices in the
    corridors of power, the hope is to kindle greater awareness and
    confidence among women so they become more active
    participants in demanding a solution.

    "We can start by critiquing the policies that are creating the pain," said Joan Chittister, a
    Benedictine nun, at the press conference. "I might not have all the answers, but I cannot
    sit by in silence while the policies are destroying the very people I care about."

    In recognition of the fact that many of the world's conflicts come from a clash of faiths, the
    conference has an overtly religious theme. It is bringing together female spiritual leaders
    from all faiths – such as an Islamic scholar, Buddhist nun, Hindu guru, and members of
    the Christian clergy.

    To this end, Merriam hopes the conference will bring a World Council of Women
    Spiritual Leaders, which would be a mechanism to guide and advance more
    inclusive solutions to global problems.

    Yet many of the attendees say the gathering in itself, regardless of its outcome, enables
    them to carry out their work.

    Yacoobi needs such spiritual refreshment, she says frankly. "Coming here allows me to
    collect myself from all the things going on in Afghanistan," she says. "This war is
    destroying our country, our religion, and our faith, but coming here and seeing these
    people gives me a lot of energy to believe."

    A psychologist in the West Bank, Laila Atshan, too, sees the worst of war – wives who
    have lost husbands and sons in the conflict with Israel. "I will go back stronger to give
    them strength," she says. For years, she has considered opening an interfaith community
    center. "I am hoping this will give me the guts to go do it."

    So is Merriam: "The goal is to provide space for people to have a transformational
    moment – to have people come away so moved that they bring it back to their
    communities."
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